Generative models such as Large Language Models (LLMs) and Multimodal Large Language Models (MLLMs) trained on massive datasets can lead them to memorize and inadvertently reveal sensitive information, raising ethical and privacy concerns. While some prior works have explored this issue in the context of LLMs, it presents a unique challenge for MLLMs due to the entangled nature of knowledge across modalities, making comprehensive unlearning more difficult. To address this challenge, we propose Modality Aware Neuron Unlearning (MANU), a novel unlearning framework for MLLMs designed to selectively clip neurons based on their relative importance to the targeted forget data, curated for different modalities. Specifically, MANU consists of two stages: important neuron selection and selective pruning. The first stage identifies and collects the most influential neurons across modalities relative to the targeted forget knowledge, while the second stage is dedicated to pruning those selected neurons. MANU effectively isolates and removes the neurons that contribute most to the forget data within each modality, while preserving the integrity of retained knowledge. Our experiments conducted across various MLLM architectures illustrate that MANU can achieve a more balanced and comprehensive unlearning in each modality without largely affecting the overall model utility.

Language models (LMs) require effective episodic grounding—the ability to learn from and apply past experiences—to perform well at physical planning tasks. While current approaches struggle with scalability and integration of episodic memory, which is particularly limited for medium-sized LMs (7B parameters), larger LMs (70-405B) offer untapped potential through their hierarchical representations and extensive pre-trained knowledge. Therefore, to unlock larger LMs’ potential for grounding, we present a scalable weak-to-strong episodic learning framework that efficiently transfers episodic behaviors from smaller to larger LMs. It uses Monte Carlo tree search for structured experience collection with a novel distillation method that preserves LM capabilities while incorporating episodic memory. This enables larger LMs to leverage their inherent advantages for improved physical planning. Experiments show our solution outperforms top proprietary LMs by 3.45% across diverse planning and question-answering tasks. Layer-wise probing reveals systematic improvements in task alignment, particularly in later LM layers. It shows stable generalization to even unseen scenarios, even as planning steps increase, whereas baselines deteriorate sharply beyond a complexity threshold of four planning steps.