Too Polite to be Human: Evaluating LLM Empathy in Korean Conversations via a DCT-Based Framework

Seoyoon Park, Jaehee Kim, Hansaem Kim


Abstract
As LLMs are increasingly used in global conversational settings, concerns remain about their ability to handle complex sociocultural contexts. This study evaluates LLMs’ empathetic understanding in Korean—a high-context language—using a pragmatics-based Discourse Completion Task (DCT) focused on interpretive judgment rather than generation. We constructed a dataset varying relational hierarchy, intimacy, and emotional valence, and compared responses from proprietary and open-source LLMs to those of Korean speakers. Most LLMs showed over-empathizing tendencies and struggled with ambiguous relational cues. Neither model size nor Korean fine-tuning significantly improved performance. While humans reflected relational nuance and contextual awareness, LLMs relied on surface strategies. These findings underscore LLMs’ limits in socio-pragmatic reasoning and introduce a scalable, culturally flexible framework for evaluating socially-aware AI.
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Proceedings of the Third Workshop on Social Influence in Conversations (SICon 2025)
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2025
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Vienna, Austria
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James Hale, Brian Deuksin Kwon, Ritam Dutt
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Seoyoon Park, Jaehee Kim, and Hansaem Kim. 2025. Too Polite to be Human: Evaluating LLM Empathy in Korean Conversations via a DCT-Based Framework. In Proceedings of the Third Workshop on Social Influence in Conversations (SICon 2025), pages 76–89, Vienna, Austria. Association for Computational Linguistics.
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