@inproceedings{xu-etal-2025-parenting, title = "Parenting: Optimizing Knowledge Selection of Retrieval-Augmented Language Models with Parameter Decoupling and Tailored Tuning", author = "Xu, Yongxin and Zhang, Ruizhe and Jiang, Xinke and Feng, Yujie and Xiao, Yuzhen and Ma, Xinyu and Zhu, Runchuan and Chu, Xu and Zhao, Junfeng and Wang, Yasha", editor = "Che, Wanxiang and Nabende, Joyce and Shutova, Ekaterina and Pilehvar, Mohammad Taher", booktitle = "Proceedings of the 63rd Annual Meeting of the Association for Computational Linguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)", month = jul, year = "2025", address = "Vienna, Austria", publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics", url = "https://preview.aclanthology.org/landing_page/2025.acl-long.571/", pages = "11643--11662", ISBN = "979-8-89176-251-0" }