Large language model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on accumulated memory to solve long-horizon decision-making tasks. However, most existing approaches store memory in fixed representations and reuse it at a single or implicit level of abstraction, which limits generalization and often leads to negative transfer when distribution shift. This paper proposes the Meta-Cognitive Memory Abstraction method (MCMA), which treats memory abstraction as a learnable cognitive skill rather than a fixed design choice. MCMA decouples task execution from memory management by combining a frozen task model with a learned memory copilot. The memory copilot is trained using direct preference optimization; it determines how experience should be structured, abstracted, and reused. Memories are further organized into a hierarchy of abstraction levels, enabling selective reuse based on task similarity. When no memory is transferable, MCMA transfers the ability to abstract and manage memory by transferring the memory copilot. Experiments on ALFWorld, ScienceWorld, and BabyAI demonstrate substantial improvements in performance, out-of-distribution generalization, and cross-task transfer over several baselines.

Large language models (LLMs) excel at natural language tasks but face deployment challenges due to computational demands. We introduce Dual Activation-Weight Sparsity (DAWS), a training-free framework that jointly exploits activation and weight sparsity through magnitude-based routing. Systematic analysis of pretrained transformers reveals two key observations: (1) the activation energy is concentrated in a few neurons, and (2) activation and weight sparsity patterns are complementary between attention and FFN layers. DAWS employs a three-tier routing strategy: high-magnitude activations pass through full-precision weights to preserve critical pathways, medium-magnitude activations use magnitude-pruned sparse weights for efficiency, and low-magnitude activations are directly discarded. Unlike prior work that uses activation-aware pruning methods like WANDA, our approach uses direct magnitude-based pruning, which we show is more robust to sample-level variations. Experiments on Llama and Mistral models demonstrate that DAWS maintains >98% of dense model performance at 50% sparsity, outperforming WANDA, TEAL, and R-Sparse.