Methods for controlling large language models (LLMs), including local weight fine-tuning, LoRA-based adaptation, and activation-based interventions, are often studied in isolation, obscuring their connections and making comparison difficult. In this work, we present a unified view that frames these interventions as dynamic weight updates induced by a control signal, placing them within a single conceptual framework. Building on this view, we propose a unified preference-utility analysis that separates control effects into preference, defined as the tendency toward a target concept, and utility, defined as coherent and task-valid generation, and measures both on a shared log-odds scale using polarity-paired contrastive examples. Across methods, we observe a consistent trade-off between preference and utility: stronger control increases preference while predictably reducing utility. We further explain this behavior through an activation manifold perspective, in which control shifts representations along target-concept directions to enhance preference, while utility declines primarily when interventions push representations off the model’s valid-generation manifold. Finally, we introduce a new steering approach guided by this analysis that improves preference while better preserving utility.

With the widespread adoption of large language models (LLMs), understanding their personality representation mechanisms has become critical. As a novel paradigm in Personality Editing, most existing methods employ neuron-editing to locate and modify LLM neurons, requiring changes to numerous neurons and leading to significant performance degradation. This raises a fundamental question: Are all modified neurons directly related to personality representation? In this work, we investigate and quantify this specificity through assessments of general capability impact and representation-level patterns. We find that: 1) Current methods can change personalities but reduce overall performance. 2) Neurons are multifunctional, connecting personality traits and general knowledge. 3) Opposing personality traits demonstrate distinctly mutually exclusive representation patterns. Motivated by these findings, we propose DPN-LE (Dual Personality Neuron Localization and Editing), which identifies personality-specific neurons by contrasting MLP activations between high-trait and low-trait samples. DPN-LE constructs layer-wise steering vectors and applies dual-criterion filtering based on Cohen’s d effect size and activation magnitude to isolate mutually exclusive neuron subsets. Sparse linear intervention on these neurons enables precise personality control at inference time. Using only 1,000 contrastive sample pairs per trait, DPN-LE intervenes on ∼0.5% of neurons while achieving competitive personality control and substantially better capability preservation across reasoning tasks. Experiments on LLaMA-3-8B-Instruct and Qwen2.5-7B-Instruct demonstrate the effectiveness and generalizability of our approach.