@inproceedings{xu-etal-2026-learning, title = "Learning How and What to Memorize: Cognition-Inspired Two-Stage Optimization for Evolving Memory", author = "Xu, Derong and Liu, Shuochen and Luo, Pengfei and Jia, Pengyue and Zhang, Yingyi and Wen, Yi and Deng, Yimin and Zhang, Wenlin and Chen, Enhong and Zhao, Xiangyu and Xu, Tong", editor = "Liakata, Maria and Moreira, Viviane P. and Zhang, Jiajun and Jurgens, David", booktitle = "Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the {A}ssociation for {C}omputational {L}inguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)", month = jul, year = "2026", address = "San Diego, California, United States", publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics", url = "https://preview.aclanthology.org/ingest-acl/2026.acl-long.2084/", pages = "44987--45011", ISBN = "979-8-89176-390-6" }