Feeling Right vs. Being Right: How AI Sycophancy Affects Value-Laden Deliberation
Jeongwoo Ryu, Soomin Kim, Jinsu Eun, Kyusik Kim, Changhoon Oh, Bongwon Suh
Abstract
As people increasingly turn to AI for personal deliberation beyond task-oriented assistance, concerns about sycophancy in these value-laden contexts have grown. Unlike human flattery, which is intentional and self-interested, AI sycophancy emerges as a byproduct of RLHF’s reward structure for user-preference alignment. Yet the observable behavior is similar: both produce responses that preserve what users want to hear. Focusing on this phenomenon through Goffman’s face-work framework, we operationalize AI sycophancy as excessive face-saving, either active (preserving positive face through agreement) or passive (preserving negative face by withholding challenge). In a mixed-methods study (N=31), participants engaged with AI across three moral dilemmas under these conditions and a non-sycophantic neutral baseline. Sycophantic responses increased decision confidence but reduced open-minded thinking; participants felt supported yet found the conversations unproductive. Neutral responses, though initially uncomfortable, promoted cognitive flexibility and meaningful deliberation. These findings reveal a confidence-competence trade-off in AI-mediated moral reasoning and suggest that effective AI for personal deliberation requires calibrated friction, not unconditional agreement.- Anthology ID:
- 2026.acl-long.2046
- Volume:
- Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the Association for Computational Linguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)
- Month:
- July
- Year:
- 2026
- Address:
- San Diego, California, United States
- Editors:
- Maria Liakata, Viviane P. Moreira, Jiajun Zhang, David Jurgens
- Venue:
- ACL
- SIG:
- Publisher:
- Association for Computational Linguistics
- Note:
- Pages:
- 44227–44245
- Language:
- URL:
- https://preview.aclanthology.org/ingest-acl/2026.acl-long.2046/
- DOI:
- Cite (ACL):
- Jeongwoo Ryu, Soomin Kim, Jinsu Eun, Kyusik Kim, Changhoon Oh, and Bongwon Suh. 2026. Feeling Right vs. Being Right: How AI Sycophancy Affects Value-Laden Deliberation. In Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the Association for Computational Linguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers), pages 44227–44245, San Diego, California, United States. Association for Computational Linguistics.
- Cite (Informal):
- Feeling Right vs. Being Right: How AI Sycophancy Affects Value-Laden Deliberation (Ryu et al., ACL 2026)
- PDF:
- https://preview.aclanthology.org/ingest-acl/2026.acl-long.2046.pdf