@inproceedings{ma-etal-2026-personalizing,
    title = "Personalizing {LLM}s with Binary Feedback: A Preference-Calibrated Optimization Framework",
    author = "Ma, Xilai  and
      Zhao, Liye  and
      Yao, Weijun  and
      Di, Haibing  and
      Wang, Wenya  and
      Li, Jing",
    editor = "Liakata, Maria  and
      Moreira, Viviane P.  and
      Zhang, Jiajun  and
      Jurgens, David",
    booktitle = "Proceedings of the 64th Annual Meeting of the {A}ssociation for {C}omputational {L}inguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)",
    month = jul,
    year = "2026",
    address = "San Diego, California, United States",
    publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics",
    url = "https://preview.aclanthology.org/ingest-acl/2026.acl-long.1222/",
    pages = "26539--26555",
    ISBN = "979-8-89176-390-6",
    abstract = "Large Language Model (LLM) personalization aims to align model behaviors with individual user preferences.Existing methods often focus on isolated user histories, neglecting the essential role of inter-user differences.We propose C-BPO, a framework that personalizes LLMs via preference-calibrated binary signals.By treating target user data as positive feedback and other users' data as an auxiliary set of implicit negative signals, C-BPO captures distinct inter-user differences.To mitigate the preference overlap issue, where shared task knowledge is erroneously penalized, we derive an objective grounded in Positive-Unlabeled (PU) learning theory.This approach purifies negative signals by subtracting ``positive bias'', ensuring alignment with unique idiosyncrasies without compromising general helpfulness.Empirical experiments across various personalization tasks and backbone LLMs show C-BPO consistently outperforms baselines, demonstrating the efficacy of preference-calibrated binary signals in modeling inter-user differences."
}