Social media has transformed communication, but it has opened new ways for women to be abused. Because of complex morphology, large vocabulary, and frequent code-mixing of Tamil and Malayalam, it might be especially challenging to identify discriminatory text in linguistically diverse settings. Because traditional moderation systems frequently miss these linguistic subtleties, gendered abuse in many forms—from outright threats to character insults and body shaming—continues. In addition to examining the sociocultural characteristics of this type of harassment on social media, this study compares the effectiveness of several Natural Language Processing (NLP) models, such as FastText, transformer-based architectures, and BiLSTM. Our results show that FastText achieved an macro f1 score of 0.74 on the Tamil dataset and 0.64 on the Malayalam dataset, outperforming the Transformer model which achieved a macro f1 score of 0.62 and BiLSTM achieved 0.57. By addressing the limitations of existing moderation techniques, this research underscores the urgent need for language-specific AI solutions to foster safer digital spaces for women.